There was a time in my life when I really cared about what everyone thought and safe thing for me.
It’s only natural. The brain was doing its job of making associations and doing what you love.
The first time I felt a shift in my thinking was when I heard my coach mentor, Martha Beck, talk about “everybody”. Your “everybody” is a small group of people (typically 5 or 6) who have large opinions about the right way to be, act, and think in the world. And when this group tells you no you believe it.
When you get an inkling [...]