Don't Let Your Past Determine Your Future

Clients often come to me looking for the perfect career anding in your way.

The study focused on women and work history to help find out whether genetic influences on entrepreneurship are fixed or whether they can be weakened or strengthened by the social environment”. ** The study showed that girls, who were exposed to physical or emotional trauma such as parental divorce or domestic abuse, significantly weaken the genetic influences on girls becoming entrepreneurs.

According to Zhang: “Even though DNA is fixed, it needs human behavior to manifest itself,” Zhang said. “It’s the same thing for someone genetically inclined to be a scientist or an artist – they still need to be nurtured through social and environmental factors. Girls who have a supportive environment during adolescence will be more likely to reach their full genetic potential as entrepreneurs, while those affected by negative, stressful events can have their natural genetic disposition weakened.”**

Before you start looking at your past as a demon that prevented you from truly living out your potential, it’s important to realize that you do have control over the outcome. What Zhang recommends for changing the impact of trauma is exposure to “environmental factors such as peer support, mentor programs, positive internships, and environmental support, their chances of becoming entrepreneurs can remain the same.”**

Even if you aren’t interested in being an entrepreneur, changing your circle of influence may give you access to career options that are more aligned with who you are. On a practical note: you could start attending networking meetings or other events that are in fields you may be interested in pursuing. This would put you in environments where you could learn and be encouraged by others.

On an interpersonal note, the most important thing you can do to start succeeding andle any outcome that arises. How can you build self-confidence?

Here are some ways to get started:
• Create new self-talk. Note how many times you criticize yourself through out the day. Give yourself messages that are positive and affirm your unique talents.
• When you find yourself fixated on the improbability of a risk being successful ask yourself: is it true?
• If you feel uncertain, create a plan B. Sometimes knowing how you will handle a potential outcome will give you the confidence you need to take the first steps.

The trap that many of us fall into is thinking that our limited beliefs about our circumstances and opportunities grow.

** From article, August 5, 2010

Leave a Comment

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *


You may use these HTML tags and attributes: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>